LEROYPENNYSAVER&NEWS - JANUARY 17, 2016
        
        
          
            Care&CrisisHelplineCelebrates ItsFirstYear
          
        
        
          Mary’s drug addiction has
        
        
          cost her everything: her fami-
        
        
          ly, her friends, her job and, she
        
        
          fears, her life.
        
        
          She has been in and out of
        
        
          therapy, support groups and ab-
        
        
          stinence from cocaine. Feeling
        
        
          frustrated and very much alone
        
        
          withnooptions left,Marycalled
        
        
          theCare&CrisisHelpline.
        
        
          She talked about her dilemma
        
        
          of not being able to stay clean
        
        
          while her addiction was killing
        
        
          her. A trained Helpline listener
        
        
          quietly took it all in and offered
        
        
          the support and referrals that
        
        
          Mary needed.
        
        
          This is no fictional tale.
        
        
          Mary’s call was one of more
        
        
          than 7,300 that the Helpline re-
        
        
          ceived since it began a year ago.
        
        
          As ofmidnight Jan. 1, 2016, the
        
        
          service has fielded calls from
        
        
          depressed, lonely, distressed,
        
        
          frustrated or otherwise unhappy
        
        
          people with a desperate need to
        
        
          talkabout their troubles.And for
        
        
          the last year someone has been
        
        
          on the other end of the line 24
        
        
          hours a day.
        
        
          “We have continuouslyupdat-
        
        
          ed our knowledge about what’s
        
        
          going on in Genesee County to
        
        
          be able to help people no mat-
        
        
          ter what their concern is,”Help-
        
        
          lineManager HollyBaxter said.
        
        
          “From autism and heroin use to
        
        
          cancer, family issues andbroken
        
        
          relationships, Helpline staff re-
        
        
          ally is here for anyone with any
        
        
          type of crisis.”
        
        
          According toBaxter, there are
        
        
          many stories that are all too real
        
        
          for those struggling through the
        
        
          myriad of ills that plague soci-
        
        
          ety.  Without the patient sup-
        
        
          port of a trained listener, those
        
        
          people could have ended up in
        
        
          worse shape,  or dead. There
        
        
          was the caller who was upset
        
        
          because he broke his sobrietyon
        
        
          Christmas after a 14-month ab-
        
        
          stinence. After doing so well he
        
        
          decided to stop going to support
        
        
          group meetings and counseling.
        
        
          The listener talked about the
        
        
          importanceof stayingwith treat-
        
        
          ment and encouragedhim to call
        
        
          whenever he felt like drinking.
        
        
          Another caller was still ar-
        
        
          guing with her husband while
        
        
          she was on the phone. She was
        
        
          upset that he stayed too long at
        
        
          a friend’s house while she was
        
        
          home sick with their kids.  The
        
        
          listener calmed the caller down
        
        
          to the point where she felt she
        
        
          could resume her discussion
        
        
          withher husband.Another caller
        
        
          had completely different family
        
        
          issues. She has suffered from
        
        
          low self-esteem and depression
        
        
          ever since her father abused her
        
        
          as a child. Her parents are di-
        
        
          vorced and her dad, who lives
        
        
          out of state, has wanted her to
        
        
          visit. She talked over options
        
        
          with the listener to identifywhat
        
        
          is best for her life.
        
        
          The stories are many and
        
        
          varied. The issues are real.
        
        
          And Helpline staff has been in
        
        
          place now every day, even on
        
        
          Thanksgiving, Christmas and
        
        
          NewYear’s. The Care & Crisis
        
        
          Helpline supplements coverage
        
        
          for other local agencies includ-
        
        
          ing Genesee County Mental
        
        
          Health after-hours calls, Stop
        
        
          DWI, Genesee County’s Med-
        
        
          icaid Fraud Line and YWCA’s
        
        
          DomesticViolenceCrisis&Pre-
        
        
          ventionServices program.
        
        
          The Helpline took 7,353 calls
        
        
          last year, including 3,929 for
        
        
          Genesee County Mental Health
        
        
          crisis, 382 that were suicide re-
        
        
          lated, 466 domestic violence
        
        
          crisis calls and 1,555 for crisis
        
        
          information and referrals. Those
        
        
          numbers reflect the instances that
        
        
          someone in need received the
        
        
          support he or shewas seeking.
        
        
          Contracts are still available
        
        
          to agencies, organizations and
        
        
          businesses, Baxter said.
        
        
          “To serve as a safety net for
        
        
          people in crisis in Genesee
        
        
          County and the surrounding
        
        
          area,” she said. “We have a fully
        
        
          trained staff, a toll-free number
        
        
          and access tomore than 220 di-
        
        
          alects and languages. The Help-
        
        
          line ensures that youhave some-
        
        
          body available 24/7.”
        
        
          For more information, call
        
        
          (585) 344-4400 or (844) 345-
        
        
          4400, or go to ywcagenesee.org
        
        
          for a liveChat option.